Teens Self Help

A medium to express myself and talk about my feelings, hoping to inspire you... "Believe in yourself, in the power you have to control your own life day by day. Believe in the strength that you have deep inside and your faith will help show you the way. Believe in tomorrow and what it will bring. For things will work out if you trust and believe there is no limit to what you can do!" (Larry S. Chengges)

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

The Blaming Game

It is very easy for many people to blame others for their problems. They rather blame others than accept responsibility for their own lives; and for the actions that created that life. It's easier when they pretend that nothing is their fault, that they always know what is right; that they never make mistakes... They sometimes stop talking to you because they blame you for their unhappiness; they get upset easily and they cannot trust you - or others. It is very hard to deal with people like this, you feel like they drain your energy; like no matter what you do, they'll find something wrong and they'll put you down (with actions or words); they are hard to please.

We are all responsible for our thoughts, actions and intentions! We are the designers of our lives and the creators of our reality. Our life is our responsibility. We have the freedom to choose what is right for us and ultimately, we are responsible for all the choices that we make. We always have the power to control our thoughts and our actions - to think and act responsibly. Others may never please us or may never fulfill our expectations, but we cannot blame them for everything that is wrong in our lives. We shouldn't be so demanding...

Let's stop assuming things and let's try to communicate with others and express our feelings. If others don't want to hear what we have to say; then let's write it down. When we write a letter - even if we don't send it - we let go of our negative feelings. It's not good to hold on to them - they will only hurt us! Release the hurt, release the fear.


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